I realized while some of you may know me for who I am today, a lot of you might not know who I was back then.
And I promise you I’m not trying to spin you a sad origin story or flex my come-up – this is relevant to the biz, just stick with me.
In 1985, my parents and I emigrated to the United States from Iran for better opportunities.
We left everything and everyone for pretty much nothing.
We lived in a 600 sq foot apartment and had to move multiple times.
My mom couldn’t even get a job at McDonalds, while all my dad could earn was $3.75 an hour as a shoe salesman.
Oh, and I could barely speak English.
Eventually, my dad was able to open up a small business and asked (forced lol) me to work every Saturday and during summer breaks.
I started off as a car porter and janitor, then learned how to market and rent apartments, and then eventually sold cars (all by the age of 18).
Unbeknownst to me at the time: I was getting a second education.
A necessary struggle because my grades were terrible at school, which made my dad hellbent on making sure I was a straight A student when it came to working hard and hustling.
Especially when after barely graduating high school (1.7 GPA), I dropped out of college to become a telemarketer for a small mortgage brokerage.
Because of that drive instilled in me when I was at my lowest, I made over 100,000 cold calls (minimum) and quickly became the top telemarketer in the country at that company.
I learned how to say “hi, how are you?” in 20+ languages with near perfect annunciation to build hyper quick rapport in the first 30 seconds of every call.
And by the age of 25, I purchased my first investment property: a 17-unit apartment building for $1M that I still own today.
All of that to say…
The current state of the market shouldn’t be holding you back from growing, learning, and evolving.
Diamonds are made under pressure.
If that little kid from Iran could turn into the person I am today, then you can still win despite all the obstacles standing in our way right now as LOs.
And I don’t know who needs to hear this, but…
You’ve gotta toughen up.
Adversity isn't just a challenge to overcome; it's an opportunity to grow stronger and smarter.
Each setback you encounter is a stepping stone to greater success, whether or not you can see it in the moment.
So here’s what I encourage you to do today:
Grab a notebook and a pen (or write this down on your phone/computer).
List out every single difficult thing you’ve had to face in the last 6 months.
Under each item, take a minute to reflect and think about what you actually gained from it.
And under that, write out how you would want to show up to that issue if you ever were to encounter it.
It might feel weird to do this, but this is a super powerful visualization practice that may be rooted in conjecture, but could totally shift the way you handle issues in the future.
This exercise isn’t just about reflection—it’s about preparation and transformation.
Remember, adversity is not a roadblock; it’s a catalyst for growth.
Struggle gives success value and this “Great Reset” will produce great winners on the other side.
- Amir